I’m Chase, and my story is a testament to how mentorship can profoundly shape a life. Today, I want to share my journey with you and show how a supportive figure can change everything. I also hope to inspire others to support Big Brothers Big Sisters of Niagara (BBBSN).
To celebrate Big Brothers Big Sisters Month, we’re launching a national campaign called “Mentorship Equals.” This initiative means a lot to me, and I’m excited to share how mentorship has shaped my future.
Growing up, my path was far from clear. I was raised by my grandfather, who was the only male role model I had. But he knew I needed more—a strong, supportive female figure in my life. That’s how I was introduced to BBBSN and matched with my mentor, Kristyn, when I was just eight years old through the In-School Mentoring (ISM) program.
As we spent more time together, we transitioned from the ISM program to the Traditional 1:1 Community Based mentoring program. It gave us the freedom to hang out outside of school, which brought us even closer.
Kristyn has been there for me in so many ways. One moment that stands out is when she and her husband helped me write a resume and drove me around to drop it off at local businesses. That resume landed me my first job at Tim Hortons, where I worked for five years. It wasn’t just a job—it was a stepping stone that led to so many other important things in my life. I made lifelong friends and even found my passion for coaching. Looking back, I can see how that single day changed the course of my life.
Mentorship has given me direction, confidence, and the support I needed to chase my dreams. Kristyn even attended my graduation from Brock University, a moment that meant the world to me. For anyone considering getting involved with Big Brothers Big Sisters, I can’t stress enough how impactful it can be.
For me, mentorship equals the empowerment to pursue my goals. It’s the relationship that transformed my life, providing direction and encouragement when I needed it most.
Kristyn and I are still a big part of each other’s lives, and I’m forever grateful for our relationship. Even though our official mentoring through Big Brothers Big Sisters has ended, she’s more than a mentor—she’s my sister. Her guidance has shown me that a positive outlook can change everything. For me, mentorship equals everything.
Our youth are our future, and they need our support. If you have the opportunity, I urge you to donate or become a mentor yourself. You never know just how much of a difference you could make in someone’s life.
Kristyn (former mentor) at Chase’s (former mentee) Brock University Graduation