When Russell signed up to be a Big Brother, he never imagined he would gain one of the most meaningful relationships of his life. 

Russell and Dylan were matched through Big Brothers Big Sisters in March 2013, shortly after Dylan’s ninth birthday. From their first meeting at Tim Hortons, the connection felt natural. What began as weekly hangouts filled with bowling, movies, video games, and family dinners soon grew into a lasting bond. 

Over time, Dylan became part of Russell’s family, sharing everyday moments that helped shape his confidence, independence, and sense of direction. 

As Dylan entered his teen years, he discovered a passion for hands-on work through woodworking, welding, and manufacturing. Russell encouraged that interest, working alongside him on renovation projects, cars, and even building a deck together. Russell also taught Dylan how to drive, supporting his growing independence every step of the way. 

By 19, Dylan was living on his own and fully supporting himself. When he was accepted into the Carpentry and Renovation program at Niagara College, the cost of tuition, tools, and living expenses felt overwhelming. With Russell’s help, Dylan applied for financial support and received a Big Brothers Big Sisters bursary for two consecutive years. 

The bursary helped cover tuition, textbooks, tools, and transportation costs. In Dylan’s words, it made attending college possible. This spring, he will graduate and begin his career in the skilled trades. 

Although Russell and Dylan officially graduated from the BBBS program after seven years, their relationship never ended. They still spend time together, support one another, and give back by supporting BBBSN fundraisers like Bowl for Kids Sake. 

“I can’t imagine my life without Big Brothers Big Sisters or Russell,” Dylan says. “It is the bonds with others that make us stronger.” 

Russell shares that mentoring has been one of the most rewarding experiences of his life. What started as volunteering became a lifelong friendship. 

Russell and Dylan’s story is a reminder that mentorship is about showing up, believing in potential, and building connections that last well beyond the program. 

Click here to learn what it takes to be a mentor. 

Dylan, Russel, and BBBSN Staff and Board of Directors members.